What Women Want: A Five Point Guide For Men

What women want may surprise you. At least once a day as a coach and a dating columnist, I receive an email from a guy somewhere and ask for a response to the question asked most frequently by men: "What do women want?" The question of what women want comes from a genuine confusion in many men. What most people know, is that men and women think very differently. And how different patterns of thought have proved some couples get into trouble.



Men like control, both women sit and talk. When you schedule a date if you want to please her, seeks to combine the two, as lunch and a walk in the park. Another example of how differently men and women believe that men perceive long days of work and on weekends as a way to prove their success or love. Women, however, can see that the behavior of negligence. There are many examples where men and women get their signals crossed.



If you were at a loss to understand what women want, here is a guide into five sections: 1. Because the number of women OneAll want to be number one. Just ask Cinderella, Cleopatra, Miss Piggy, or any other famous female icon. They want to know who is first in order of priority rights. They want to feel that their boyfriend or husband to collect on any other activity or relationship. If your daughter knows that will not be present when your mother, son, friend or co-worker calls and asks for help.



I do not understand is that if you have dinner with your ex, sometimes, or place your shots with it and have beer with the boys, however, and never takes time to ask questions about their day because it looks the sports channel every minute you're home. Being number one is the number one desire of most women.2. Keep your WordWomen want a man who keeps his word. .. relationships, work, and in all aspects of life.



If you are promised the world (Disney World, that is), then you better give. If you do not do what you say you do not trust. Without trust, your relationship does not mean anything. Keep your agreements. If you can not tell her (preferably in advance) and tell you how to address them. More importantly, do not make promises that can not keep.3. ListeningWomen want a man who listens. I know you're tired of hearing about, but is central to a relationship.



He wants to be heard. listen. Apparently, it is difficult for most men do. sit down and talk is not something you're naturally wired for. But you can learn. Moreover, it is impossible to have intimate conversations or important with dogs barking, babies crying, or phones ringing. If your daughter tries to talk to you, dealing with any emergency, turn on the phone and television, and give your attention.



If you do, you do feel matters.4. Believing HerWomen want to be thought by men. Men tend to be (or think they are) more analytical women. So when he talks and tries to tell you something important, you may be inclined to reject it. If you know how to balance your brain with your heart and listen with kindness, you will see what he has to say is relevant to your life with her. If you're with someone you trust, so his words do not affect you.



(And you should ask yourself why you're there.) But if you like and trust herthen her.5 think. Making AsksWomen want you to do what he wants in the crucial moments. She does not expect "anything can, but there are times when his call to requests for assistance. I know, I knowsome you probably grinning right now. But if you implement what it says, you have a partner very happy. "This statement implies that you are a beautiful person, she is the most rational of the time, she was not asking the impossible or ridiculous to you, and is also given.